| Preface | XI | ||
| CHAPTER ONE The General Principles | 1 | ||
| CHAPTER TWO The Engagement | 33 | ||
| CHAPTER THREE Three Terrible Ideas | 66 | ||
| CHAPTER FOUR The Plans | 99 | ||
| CHAPTER FIVE The Guest List | 137 | ||
| CHAPTER SIX The Paper (and Electronic) Work | 170 | ||
| CHAPTER SEVEN The Presents | 218 | ||
| CHAPTER EIGHT The Wedding | 251 | ||
| With Apologies and Best Wishes to the Bride | 285 | ||
| Index | 289 |